Ain't I a Black Woman?
Before I continue to write about the ways in which Black women are continuously and rampantly an asterisk or an afterthought of Black liberation movements. I want to stress-I am tired. We are tired. This piece was so close to being called “Tired” because that’s all I could say I couldn’t come up with a witty way to articulate what it feels like to be a Black woman in this country and in her communities. However, I am grateful to the ancestors, queen mothers, and sister folk of our world today for giving me not only the language but the unquenchable fire to keep being loud and consistent with the liberation of Black women- even if it falls on deaf ears. Something I’ve learned over time is that freedom can’t be bought or even asked for. Freedom is something you have to acknowledge you already possess and walk into once you make the decision to live free. In honor of queen mother and ancestor Sojourner Truth, a black woman who, in 1827 did not run away from her “master,” but in her words, “ walked away by daylight….”, I want to begin with some excerpts from her 1851 speech at the Women's National Convention - “Ain’t I a Woman?”
“...that man over there says that women need to be helped into carriages, and lifted over ditches, and to have the best place everywhere. Nobody ever helps me into carriages, or over mud-puddles, or gives me any best place! And ain't I a woman? Look at me! Look at my arm! I have ploughed and planted, and gathered into barns, and no man could head me! And ain't I a woman? I could work as much and eat as much as a man - when I could get it - and bear the lash as well! And ain't I a woman? I have borne thirteen children, and seen most all sold off to slavery, and when I cried out with my mother's grief, none but Jesus heard me! And ain't I a woman?
Then they talk about this thing in the head; what's this they call it? [member of audience whispers, "intellect"] That's it, honey. What's that got to do with women's rights or negroes' rights? If my cup won't hold but a pint, and yours holds a quart, wouldn't you be mean not to let me have my little half measure full? ...then that little man in black there, he says women can't have as much rights as men, 'cause Christ wasn't a woman! Where did your Christ come from? Where did your Christ come from? From God and a woman! Man had nothing to do with Him. Obliged to you for hearing me, and now old Sojourner ain't got nothing more to say.”