Self-care isn’t selfish, it’s sacred, sis. From honoring your hair to unplugging for peace, these rituals are about reclaiming joy, rest, and softness in a world that often demands our strength. You deserve care that feels like home, because you are the blueprint.

Chelley Bissainthe entered Love Island USA at 27 and reminded us that Black women are never too late to choose love on their own terms. From romantic clarity to unwavering sisterhood, her journey was a masterclass in self-possession. This piece explores how Chelley’s presence taught us to lead with discernment, demand reciprocity, and never apologize for being the blueprint.