I think it is safe to say that the controversial duo, JT and Resha, also known as the City Girls, has left their mark on the music industry. Resha and JT set the tone when they dropped their debut single, “F*** Tha N*gga.” The name of the song speaks for itself, but what many fail to see are the deeper meanings of the vulgarity coming from these pretty girl’s mouths. Class is in session, let’s learn what the City girls have to teach.
Scenario 1:
“Bum n*ggas, give me headaches, where the Tylenol? If you ain’t talking money, that’s a missed call”
Ladies, I know we can all relate to having that one guy who does not bring much to the table, however they are quick to snatch everything from yours. He might be burdening you financially, emotionally or mentally. The amount of time that you spend lurking on his social media could be time better spent building your brand, securing that 4.0, or getting your money up. The City Girls are letting us know that these bum boys don’t deserve a Good Girl’s time. Their giving us much needed permission to do what we NEED to do to get where we NEED to be, without distractions.
Scenario 2:
“Im that b**** but I am not your b****”
You finally meet a guy who matches your vibe. You are both thriving in your career fields but you still seem to feel incomplete. You are no longer passionate about the things that usually fueled you and you feel as if you lack a purpose. You have become complacent. As hard as it may be to admit, you have allowed yourself to pour so much of your energy into your significant other that you might have left nothing for yourself. Once you come to this realization, you can begin to take control over your life and start the process of living your BEST life! Remember that you do not belong to anyone and you do not have to be a girlfriend to find love. Pour love into your friends, family, passions and the most important...YOU!
Scenario 3:
“I ain't the b*** you gon' sit and treat lame
Telling me lies, thinking you running your game“
You finally got your groove back and let go of some of that dead weight, including your ex “Mr. Right”. You are now dating, but you find yourself questioning if what you require from men is too much. You are either disinterested or flat-out skeptical about every guy. The constant doubt has you reconsidering if leaving your ex was the right thing to do. As women, it is common for us to allow heartbreak or messy situations to lower our standards, so that we do not feel lonely. Truth be told, every women should have the confidence to know that they are IT! Don’t let these boys try to run game on you. Use that special super power that every girl has, your intuition. The City Girls are simply letting us know that their standards are not to be reckoned with!
Whether you are their biggest fan, or still have not heard one song, The City Girls have some valuable advice for us all. Good Girl, it is okay to channel your inner City Girl and let the world know that you are that B! PERIOD.
