I was an overly ambitious high school graduate, thinking about all the things I couldn’t wait to do going into my first year of college. I as high off my first taste of freedom, with little to no real gage on what the lifestyle I imagined for myself would cost me. I recall going through all my wants, as if wants were things I needed. I would say, “I’m going to lease a lux apartment” or “F it I’ma buy a new phone or a new car to celebrate a new beginning.” Seeing people online “getting it” looked so easy to do. Then it hit me...