Feeling Myself

Feeling Myself : Masturbation & a Tribute to the Magic of Your Fingers

The feeling that overtakes your body before you climax is unmatched and even better when you’re the cause of those fireworks.

We’re talking about masturbation, ladies. The art of pleasuring yourself without the assistance of anyone else. The taboo of masturbation has always confused me because it’s literally the raw essence of that radical self-love that people love to preach on their vlogs and Instagram posts.

It’s all about connecting with yourself on a level that no one else can, simply because no one knows your body better than you do! Understanding what your body wants and needs helps your sex life and overall confidence.

It strengthens your sex life because now you’re able to pinpoint exactly where your partner is going wrong. Say goodbye to big finishes from your partner and the lack of for you. It’s time to get yours, sweetie. By knowing the speed, motion, and area that sends those waves from your toes to neck, you can direct your partner and give them the key to your big O. Masturbation can also add some well-needed spice to those moments in between the sheets. Some people gain pleasure simply from seeing you pleasure yourself. Give it a try, I promise it won’t disappoint!

As odd as it sounds, masturbation helps your confidence. It’s quite powerful knowing that you can achieve greatness down below just as well, if not better than someone else can for you. No longer will you settle for someone who gives you mediocre sex, especially if they were already losing points in other areas of the relationship. You level up on your worth and understand that you can do bad all by yourself, literally. You won’t be dependent on someone else for something that is so natural.

There’s nothing left but to do it! If you’re a beginner, start off with just your fingers. Play your favorite bedroom playlist music, take a warm bath, put on your diffuser, and relax into yourself. Once you get comfortable with that, begin to explore toys or other aids that add some flavor. Besides, every good girl likes to have a little fun!